[Sidders]

I would send the boys around.

[kendra k]

the boys?

maybe i could fax this to her.

[Lucie]

ummm UPDATE?!

[Sidders]

Funny you should choose today to say that Luce, as I've been feeling particularly depressed about it today, and was taking advice from Kendra earlier on about how I can move on.

Basically last night I was on a break and she came down the staff room for her break talking to one of her other friends about this bloke she fancies. It felt like someone had ripped my heart out of my chest. I felt like shit for the rest of the evening.

We sat down after work and had a beer and me, her and a couple of others played a game of cards. So basically, we're still friends, but now I've got more of a confirmation that it's not a matter of "I'm happy being single" but more like "you're not the one for me".

Kendra says I should actively avoid her for a while, to give myself some space while I get her out of my system, and I'm inclined to agree. It's not my preferred choice of action, but I think it's going to be the only way I'm going to get her off my mind.

[MK Chris]

Kendra is wise and all-knowing, go with her choice.

[Sidders]

I really don't know what to do. The more I think about it the more I want to try and persue something, even if it just means carrying on as I am (which is clearly doing me no favours).

[kendra k]

Just watch out. She might catch on, grow irritated, and avoid you. It could be good in the long run, though even more painfull. I say, get a crush on the new girl instead.

Topher's right. I am wise. It's like my name and shiz.

[Sidders]

See, I feel fine about it all today. I'm always depressed on Sundays, probably due to lack of sleep on Saturday nights.

[Lucie]

My (now)boyfriend used to really annoy me by being so blatant and making it obvious that he liked me. After I turned him down he left me alone which suited me fine. Then when I heard stories about him and other girls I got really jealous and realised how I felt!

Might work .

[Quincy]

sidla get in your dressing gown

[Adam]

My (now)boyfriend used to really annoy me by being so blatant and making it obvious that he liked me. After I turned him down he left me alone which suited me fine. Then when I heard stories about him and other girls I got really jealous and realised how I felt!

Might work .

Out of 10, how would you rate his bedroom skills ?

[Lucie]

no sex before marriage innit yo

[Adam]

What stories did you hear?

[Lucie]

you iz making no sense

[Gigglyboots]

Avoid them. I had this brief thing with someone, someone I really liked, and they've just had their heart broken, it's never going to work, so I'm staying well clear despite the fact I like them.

[Sidders]

It's so depressing because I really don't think I'll ever have a chance, but she's such a nice person that if it wasn't for my feelings for her we could be really good friends. That's why I don't want to start avoiding her.

I guess I could try the jealousy thing, but I'd have to make up the stories, because I'm not the sort of bloke who goes around snogging randoms.

[Lucie]

Avoid her and get yourself out there!

[Sidders]

I don't have anyone to go out with though.

I've decided to put more effort into getting fit. I went for a power walk after work today and intend to do so every day from now on. I will also try not to drink as much as I do.

[Lucie]

I don't have anyone to go out with though.

YES YOU DO, STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF!

[Quincy]

who do you think you are harold bishop!?

power walk! GET A GRIP MAN!

[Lucie]

how is mrs quincy?

[kendra k]

I don't have anyone to go out with though.

YES YOU DO, STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF!

lucie, big fat WORD!

simon, she's not the only girl out there, so stop thinking that. walking, less drinking, things liek that are good. but stop wallowing in the "poor me! louise doesn't fancy me!" pit. pick up and carry on.

[Quincy]

horny

[Sidders]

I don't have anyone to go out with though.

YES YOU DO, STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF!

lucie, big fat WORD!

simon, she's not the only girl out there, so stop thinking that. walking, less drinking, things liek that are good. but stop wallowing in the "poor me! louise doesn't fancy me!" pit. pick up and carry on.

I don't mean 'go out' as in date, I mean that I don't really have any friends who I go out to paint the town red with, if you see what I mean. All my close friends have now all flown the nest unfortunately.

Anyway, my new attitude is get fit, lose weight, drink less, feel healthy and look good, which will hopefully give me more confidence and I will have more sucess in the future. We will see if Louise changes her mind about me then, but if she doesn't then who cares because by that time I will be able to get any girl I want.

At least that's the plan.

[kendra k]

Anyway, my new attitude is get fit, lose weight, drink less, feel healthy and look good, which will hopefully give me more confidence and I will have more sucess in the future. We will see if Louise changes her mind about me then, but if she doesn't then who cares because by that time I will be able to get any girl I want.

At least that's the plan.

that's a good plan, but you need to stop caring about louise changing your mind. only care about the things you can control and change, it'll be the best way.