What you were talking about with headphones which create anti-noise, etc, etc is due to what's know as
interference, whether
constructive or
destructive.
Basically, if you have 2 waves whcih are exactly the same and add them together (like one on top of the other), you get the same sound, but louder (the amplitudes or volumes have been added together). This is
constructive interference.
Destructive interference is similar - if you have two waces exactly the same but slightly out of phase (i.e. one is at its peak whilst the other one is at its lowest and vica-versa) and THEN add them together, you get
destructive interference where basically the opposite volumes cancel each other out and you get a decrease in volume.
The headphones for fighter pilots you were talking about basically have the microphones which pick up the ambient noise. The frequencies, amplitudes, etc are replicated axactly by a computer chip and then passed through the pilots headphones, but slightly out of phase so that all the noise cancels out. It is in no way tricking the ears, it is manipulating the sound before it gets to the ears. The pilots can effectively fly in complete silence.
This would be possible with audio such as songs, etc, although some frequencies and wavelengths on the backing track may clash with the vocals, so when the destructive interference occurs, you may lose some parts of the vocals, or they may not seem as clear.
Good idea in theory, though
