[Ballbag]

Yeah I find Oral better when the guy tells the truth!

"Yeah i will tell you when i am about to...."

Sometimes you just can't tell in enough time..... or you just can't be arsed to mop up afterwards.

[Vivienne]

that's crap! that's just poor self-control!

[Ballbag]

Viv, no offence, but as a woman I feel you are ill-positioned in order to give an accurate opinion on male ejaculation.

[Vivienne]

Yep, but I've experience in other ways! And I happen to know that you know when it's about to happen, thus you should be able to stop!

[Ballbag]

Some times Viv, you really do make yourself look like a right div.

[Vivienne]

No, I do not. I am experienced.

[Walter Sobchak]

Yep, but I've experience in other ways! And I happen to know that you know when it's about to happen, thus you should be able to stop!

Thats not always true viv.

Depends on how he's looked after his little friend really, take the myth that men can only climax once, with the correct training 'down there' men can have multiple climaxes too.

[scamp88]

Yep, but I've experience in other ways! And I happen to know that you know when it's about to happen, thus you should be able to stop!

Thats not always true viv.

Depends on how he's looked after his little friend really, take the myth that men can only climax once, with the correct training 'down there' men can have multiple climaxes too.

Hmm train us then what do men like....

Sometimes i feel even with a map a guy would still get lost with a woman

[Vivienne]

they tend to like oral stuff a lot, esp. if you can do it for ages !! I'd be ashamed to post the rest (pink face, pink face).

[scamp88]

lol dont go pink faced, the guys can also chip in, what would you like a woman to do to you?

[Vivienne]

Er... I AM a female, and I'd like another female to do bug all!!

[foot-loose]

Sometimes i feel even with a map a guy would still get lost with a woman

They should get Sat Nav then.

"Please perform a U-turn as soon as it is safe to do so."

[catherine]

no stop think of the children!

[Andy B]

Length of time isn't important. depth is. And also technique. no good going on for ages if it's rubbish...and since every man has different tastes and preferences it'd be almost impossible to describe what is right and wrong.

[scamp88]

FInnnee

what would u like a man to do!!

[Walter Sobchak]

Umm, don't be too hasty there viv!

[Vivienne]

too hasty in what sense, Walter?

[catherine]

with girl on girl action

[Vivienne]

No thank you! I only do bf's.

[scamp88]

with girl on girl action

pass girl on girl -- nooooooo

how classy is this:

"We Thumped on the duvet months of sexual tension realesed and then i released his white Y-Fronts S-Club 7 pumped through the house"

Liz xx

[Vivienne]

that's disgusting! Go and shampoo your mind.

[scamp88]

OMG no!!1

I read it in Love It!! a couple of weeks ago and it has always stayed with me...

the story was called

"I'll be a Gran of 2 at 18"

[Walter Sobchak]

umm nothing viv.

I agree with Andy, and also different occasions require different ways.
Sometimes a quickie is in order, sometimes you need more sensuality.
you just have to operate on the same wavelengths.

In fact, the important thing is communication, tell each other if it feels good, or not so good, but don't insult or get insulted (unless you're role playing of course).

If you think you're partner "needs a map", then show him (or her), people know the rudimentary's, but if you wabt to enjoy it more than communicate.

[Vivienne]

You just need to be good at the following = oral! you're sorted!!

[Andy B]

I rarely need a map but sometimes I need to be reminded of the speed limits. No point doing 30 ina zone where the limit is 90 (is that too much of a metaphor?)