[Vivienne]

Edith Bowman was this afternoon discussing qualities in people - i.e. what physically or psychologically would draw you to a person?

For example, would you be more inclined to be a friend of someone on the same intellectual level as you? Would you go for a good sense of humour? Does fashion matter a lot to you? etc., etc.

[Andy B]

Is it really childish of me to say breast size?

Brains, humour, looks - not in order of preference.

Not too fussed about fashion but someone who at least knows how to dress so they look good.

Someone equally weird as me would be nice.

Must like small dogs.

[Nicola_Red]

It totally depends on the situation. If I'm just looking for a fling then it's all about appearance - good skin, nice eyes, stuff like that. If it's not about that then sense of humour and intelligence are more important. I can develop crushes on all sorts of random people if I find them funny.

[MK Chris]

That's me out then.

Although I do have a cracking sense of humour.

[ladbroke]

Is it really childish of me to say breast size?

No not at all . Not Jordan sized (or her previous size should I say) that'd be ridiculous, but decent sized. Great sense of humour, not fashion obsessed (have been there before and it got a bit pricey), a love of food, and somebody I'd not be embarrased of around my mates or parents (by that I mean can hold a conversation, I don't mean in a superficial, stunningly beautiful way).

I only ever steer clear of red heads-they're nuts. BAD experience

[Nicola_Red]

I only ever steer clear of red heads-they're nuts. BAD experience

Moi, nuts? Dunno what you're talking about!

Actually i do think sometimes my hair can be intimidating to men. They think redheads have fiery tempers, which i don't at all, I have the least temper of anyone I've ever known. And combined with the tattoos and piercings, well, it's not everyone's cup of tea.