skye wrote:I am astounded again and again how people can get themselves so emotionally involved in a celebrity/well known individual's life. I have so many questions for you fascinating creatures!!
1) I'm not familiar with the concept of joining a forum to dicuss the intricacies of a celebrity's life. Is this something that many people do?? I don't personally know anyone who does this - or at least they don't tell me if they do. Maybe they want to keep it to themselves for some reason, I dunno.
2) Why does what a DJ do on his show BUG some of you so much? Do people in your everyday (real) life wind you up as much? Like, if someone at your work does something that annoys you every now and again in real life, do you feel compelled to discuss it in minute detail with other like-minded individuals or do you shrug it off and get on with your day?
3) Some of you seriously need to learn some anger management techniques... I have a number for a great therapist if anybody's interested?
4) How much time do you all spend thinking about and discussing the Chris Moyles show? I reckon (controversial, maybe) that if you all spent a little less time thinking about (getting mad about) and typing comments about what a Dj and his colleagues are saying/doing; you may realise that there is so much more to life than this! Free yourselves!! Getting lost in a cyberworld of unreality is surely not good for your mental health!!
PEOPLE - THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN THIS..
I think I'd quite like to respond to this...
1) I don't believe that we're here to discuss the "intricacies of Chris' life". We don't discuss in much detail stuff like his girlfriend, house, off-air friends etc - in fact not too long ago I had a bit of a rant about a crop of newbies who seemed to only be interested in things like his personal feelings on leaving Radio 1, where he lived, and the age-old question of his xbox gamertag. We are big fans of the show, so we like to talk about the show and what Chris says/does on air, admittedly sometimes in minute detail. But because Chris is the main presenter of the show, it's inevitable that some details of his personal life, eg what time he gets up in the morning, will spill into that. I reckon one of the reasons many of us enjoy Chris' DJing style is that he does talk about his life, he doesn't maintain some sort of facade like some other DJs do. I personally don't belong to any other forums that exist to discuss a particular celeb, altho I know many of them exist, but I do belong to ones that discuss a TV show and style of music, and the discussions on there often turn to personal details of a person's life too. It's just how people's thought processes work.
2) I didn't participate much in the 'Chris can't get up on time' discussion so I can't comment on that, but I personally am a very laid-back person and rarely get angry about anything much. But I am passionate about some things, and I enjoy discussing those things with like-minded and sometimes not-so-like-minded people. For example, I'm a vegan so I belong to a vegan discussion group, where I can read about what other vegans are thinking, feeling and doing. I wouldn't say I'm compelled to do it, but it's pleasant. In the internet age, it's a natural extension of talking about a tv show everyone's watching in your office. What Chris does doesn't 'bug' me, but cos I love the show, it interests me, so I like to talk about it. (This especially implies when you don't know any other listeners in "real life" - and far more people I know hate Chris than love him!)
3) See above. I can't speak for everyone, but I definitely don't need anger management. I'd like to hope that whilst many people on this forum write passionately about Chris and the show, they don't carry that sort of feeling over to all aspects of their lives - that wouldn't make any sense.
4) I'm well aware there is more to life. I have a job, a flatmate, a rat, and many other interests. I maybe spend 20mins a day on here, some days a bit more, some days I don't visit at all (altho to be fair most days I'm at least on the site to do my Tedious). I enjoy the show and I don't believe that spending less time discussing it with other fans would enhance my life, on the contrary, I've met some people on here I consider to be friends, even if it's only in 'the world of the internet'. I think my mental health is fine!
Hope that answers some of your questions skye...