Nicola_Red wrote:Johnny 1989 wrote:Unfortunately a few people on Facebook haven't been sympathetic at all, one saying "good riddance", which is very easy to say if you don't know someone who suffers from a drug addiction.
I've seen comments like that too. People saying "oh well she was just a smackhead" as if that means her life wasn't important. My auntie, who lost her son, my cousin, when he was a teenager (and yesterday was the anniversary of his death), made a comment that people don't know pain until they have lost a child - and I suspect that's true, regardless of the cause of death.
Absolutely, one of my Dad's friends is an alcoholic, has been most of his adult life & has tried so many times to kick drinking but just can't, the break up of his marriage was the thing that turned him mostly to drink and he never got over his wife leaving him. My Dad lost touch with him for a few years but finally got back in touch with him last year, unfortunately the years of alcohol abuse have taken their toll and sadly he is slowly dying, he can hardly walk now (and no that's not because he's intoxicated), he's also a smoker which is effecting his health, sad thing is now he's told my Dad he's just waiting to eventually die. My Dad was understandably very upset coming off the phone to him after that conversation.
It's easy to dismiss them as pissheads, smackheads, etc. but until you actually know someone who is addicted to drink or drugs then you don't really know why they got to the state their in, yeah it's easy to say that she's rich and famous so tough titties, but why does having money mean anything, no matter whether your rich or poor you can still get addicted to drink or drugs.
Regards, Johnny 1989
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