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New Life#462817

By bmstinton93 - Sat Apr 07, 2012 10:11 pm

- Sat Apr 07, 2012 10:11 pm #462817

I'm not sure this is really the place to be discussing my personal life and I will probably get slated for it but enough people know now anyway so thought I'd share this with you good people.

As some of you already know my girlfriend found out that she was 20 weeks pregnant less than a month into our relationship. Its been tough but 2 months later we're still going strong. Its gonna get harder but we're both confident we can get through it. Its due on July 3rd if anyone is interested.

Feel free to put any opinions out there.

Re: New Life#462818

By dreamer1978 - Sat Apr 07, 2012 10:19 pm

- Sat Apr 07, 2012 10:19 pm #462818

You are doing something that most men wouldn't do. You are standing by your girlfriend even though she is pregnant with another man's baby. Which in my opinion as a woman, makes you a real man, so good on you. Hopefully you and your girlfriend make it and she has a healthy babv.

IT WAS WHAT IT WAS.
"IF you don't leave now, there is no going back."
"I don't want to go back."
"Ask Me to stay"
"Stay"

Re: New Life#462819

By Boboff - Sun Apr 08, 2012 6:51 am

- Sun Apr 08, 2012 6:51 am #462819

Yep Dreamer says it all. Well done Ben, R.E.S.P.E.C.T.

Re: New Life#462858

By MK Chris - Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:28 am

- Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:28 am #462858

You'll be alright Ben, does the dad want to know or not? How involved will you be getting? Well done lad.

Deadly wrote:
Topher wrote:Stuff about Thatcher....

You are a disgrace and I'm looking forward to when someone you respect dies so I can rub your liberal face in it.

New Life#462859

By bmstinton93 - Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:33 am

- Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:33 am #462859

I said I want hardly any involvement, at least for a few years, which I think is hard but possible and she agrees and she met him last week for the first time since after he bailed a few times. Apparently he said he wants to be there for her and the kid but she thinks he still won't be. And her Dad said she doesnt need him.

Re: New Life#462887

By dimtimjim - Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:58 am

- Tue Apr 10, 2012 9:58 am #462887

I'm jus' pleased my kid'll be brung up by someone with good morals.

Cheers Benji. x

I've actually met Chris n shook his hand. This fact is still causing slight issues in my trouser dept.... :wink:

Yudster wrote:Best post ever.

Re: New Life#462890

By chrysostom - Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:04 am

- Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:04 am #462890

Re: New Life#462894

By bmstinton93 - Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:07 am

- Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:07 am #462894

dimtimjim wrote:I'm jus' pleased my kid'll be brung up by someone with good morals.

Cheers Benji. x

Your old enough to be her Grandad...

Re: New Life#462896

By dimtimjim - Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:12 am

- Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:12 am #462896

Assuming no UK age laws were broken for procreation, then no i'm not, not for another 5 months....!

But ouch, that hurt.

I've actually met Chris n shook his hand. This fact is still causing slight issues in my trouser dept.... :wink:

Yudster wrote:Best post ever.

Re: New Life#462897

By bmstinton93 - Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:13 am

- Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:13 am #462897

dimtimjim wrote:Assuming no UK age laws were broken for procreation, then no i'm not, not for another 5 months....!

How old are you? I think you still maybe...

Re: New Life#462898

By chrysostom - Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:13 am

- Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:13 am #462898

DTJ, you're 49?!

Re: New Life#462901

By dimtimjim - Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:17 am

- Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:17 am #462901

No.

33. 2x 16 (years) plus 2 x 9 (months) = 33 and 6 months to legally be a grandad.

I'm 33 and 1 month.

I'm pretty sure we've discussed your mathematical inadequacies before...

EDIT: I see the confusion, Benji means 'her' as in his missus, not 'her' as in his missus unborn kid. No, i'm not ruddy old enough to be your missus grandfather - you cheeky get!