[kendra k]

right, personal dillema time. i figure y'all can be snarky or serious if you like. any help would be great.

there's this girl, the other kendra, whom i was once roommate's with. we've pretty much stopped being friends because she's too self obsessed and demanding that she was just making me crazy and depressed. the problem is she doesn't realise that's why i think the friendship is over. she concedes that "we've changed" but she hasn't in some pretty major ways. she's still flaky and habitually tardy, she still is demanding (only asking for favours, never offering or even just asking for nothing!), and she's only interested in what i'm doing if it makes her look good. i told her she should know my issues by now, but she's genuinely oblivious. our mutual friend is tired of her too, but kendra doesn't understand that yet either. how do i make her know that i will only be her friend if she changes, though she doesn't think she needs to. should i just kill it?

[Bridgie]

ive got a couple of not close mates who i guess would be the same. you think theyre just alright to hang around with but get on your nerves.

when their best mate goes on holiday or something, they'll ring you to see what your up to. *USER ALERT* i normally just tell them im doing something.

if they cant see themselves that what they do annoys you enough to not hang around with them, then theyre obviously more self obsessed than you thought. lose that hoe kendra

[Gigglyboots]

I'd maybe give her one last chance. Just sorta lay down what you think, tell her that it's not fair the way she acts and that you would prefer it if she would consider paying more attention and changing her ways.

If she doesn't accept this, then at least you have given her that chance and then you can move on.

[Morals]

right, personal dillema time. i figure y'all can be snarky or serious if you like. any help would be great.

there's this girl, the other kendra, whom i was once roommate's with.

Am I reading too much into this or is Kendra talking about the other side to herself?

[Jonny Hoare]

There's two Kendras. One we know, One she knows, cos she's her housemate

[dizzy fluff]

I used to live with a girl like that, she was a total bitch......

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

i would give her another chance everyone deserves that (except peter andre). just be brutally honest every time shes a cow cos if she works it out she will either change or f*ck off an either way is a solution.

[Sidders]

Don't ask me. I'm friends with everyone.

[coct]

Kill it kendra, it might be hard but do it. Eventually its worth it

[timb]

i agree with El Oz

[MK Chris]

I would agree with Gaspode.

I'm also really surprised you found another Kendra, almost as surprised as I was when BB found two Anouskas. Is it not a rare name in the States?

[coct]

Even if at one point she meant everything to you, you just need to accept that you lose people. Its shitty but it sounds like you've tried and you just have to let it go.

[timb]

i think kendra is an american word meaning lesbian

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

that was almost believable up to "i think"

[kendra k]

kendra's not that common of a name.

i'm telling her that if she doesn't stop being so insane, i won't talk to her.