[Andy Bkr]

spot on betti if ur after a relationship no matter how stunning they are you have to get on with them

[Ickle Angel]

Yeah i would say i gp for looks but someone who has a good personality and is a mate aswell as a lover

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

how many times on this thread will you say that ickle? just so i can keep count.

[Andy Bkr]

he does have a point

[Ickle Angel]

Sorry yeah ive just realised how many times ive said it. No more i promise

[Ickle Angel]

he does have a point

Who the hell asked you anyway? I never said he was wrong

[Andy Bkr]

see what i have to put up with?

[Sidders]

I would go for it if she is giving the signs she likes you too.

That's one of the things stopping me. How do I know what to look for?

[MK Chris]

Ask her.

[Sidders]

I can't do that cos I'll be embarrased if she doesn't fancy me.

Sorry for anyone reading this who doesn't give a stuff BTW.

[Andy Bkr]

sidla ur so irritating just ask her out man would you rather live your life regretting never asking her?

[Blazin'Babe]

I don't understand why people have the looks or personality debate. A person isn't made up of just the way they look or just their personality but a combination of both. Besides, it's not often easy to explain why you like one person as opposed to another. You can like someone for a variety of reasons, some of which you might not even understand yourself. Love doesn't ask questions, as the saying goes.

[Blazin'Babe]

i hope ur not being serious blazin u never really think thats him?

Ah, i see my attempt at sarcasm has been misinterpreted once again. Perhaps in future i should stick to the philosophical posts (see above)...ahem.

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

Love doesn't ask questions, as the saying goes.

ha in sidlas case its mostly him asking how much.

[Ickle Angel]

sidla ur so irritating just ask her out man would you rather live your life regretting never asking her?

Calm down!

[Andy Bkr]

Iam calm i just think theres no point keep going on about it either ask her out or shut up about it?

[Betti911]

Siddler watch how she behaves around you. Do you usually go out places just the two of you? If so say that theres a film on you want to see(or whatever you fancy doing) and casually ask her if she fanices coming. If she says no then you haven't really been turned down for a date. If she says yes then you can move towards the goodnight kiss.

Thats how guys have done it to me before.

[Sidders]

'tis a good idea, but I never really get time to go to the cinema.

[Betti911]

Well what do you enjoy doing and have time to do? A partner ends up taking up quite a lot of your time and in the end if you don't have time to go to the cinema how are you going to cope with the demands (well most girls/guys are pretty demanding) of a girlfriend?

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

worse than having a dog.

or in ........ 's case the same.

fillinyourownboardmembertastic

[Betti911]

I would hope Gaspode that you don't mistake doggy companionship to human. Its illegal and cruel to have sex with dogs.

My point was that to maintain a good relationship you need to be willing to devote a certain amount of time and effort to it.

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

what if the dog enjoys it?

I hate all animals.

[Andy Bkr]

is there anything u like?

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

sleep, beer, football, sleep, ice cream, the colour blue, mushrooms, sleep, chocolate, ER, jenni falconer, sleep...

this could go on for ages.

[DemonHorse]

Yeah i would say i gp for looks but someone who has a good personality and is a mate aswell as a lover

ah now see, I've tried to work with that theory in the past, become a mate, THEN move things on.... but I always (and I do mean without exception) that I was more like a brother than a boyfriend... so i tried a different approach and bagged meself the current squeeze.