[MK Chris]

let her take the lead.

No, he's tried that she's clearly not doing it... You have to tell her Sidders. Do it man, do it.

[Mafro]

let her take the lead.

Have I missed something? There is S&M involed now?

[Adam]

let her take the lead.

Have I missed something? There is S&M involed now?

I prefer M&Ms personally.

[Ickle Angel]

I prefer Malteasers

[Mafro]

I'm partial to some Revells myself.

[Ickle Angel]

Hmmm i only like the coffee ones

[Adam]

Orange - mmm.

/ that reminds me - *goes to get twix*

[Quincy]

Who's Lindsay?

lindsay = gym girl

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

stop making sidlas emotional turmoil about chocolate.

sidla at some point you just have to jump.

[kendra k]

i meant once a relationship is established....

and i knew the lead/leash thing was going to haunt me.

[Sidders]

stop making sidlas emotional turmoil about chocolate.

sidla at some point you just have to jump.

It will happen, just give me time.

[MK Chris]

The longer you take, the more you will think about it, the harder it will be. It should be sooner rather than later.

[Sidders]

I wish I'd done it originally when the first incident occured nearly a year ago. I didn't realise it would be going on this long. I thought I'd just forget about her after a while.

[MK Chris]

Well there's the proof of what I've just said - I promise you once you tell her you will realise that everything I said yesterday was right as well... I don't want to sound like I know it all but I have been in your shoes before and it wasn't easy. You just have to swallow (for want of a better word) whatever doubts you may have and go for it.

[kendra k]

do it by the end of the month or move on.

people should listen to me, i know relationships.

[Sidders]

I already tried to move on once but couldn't. I will never be able to move on before I know.

[Chongster]

is it easy enough to speak to her on a one to one basis when you see her out or wherever? Or is she always surrounded by her mates.

[Gigglyboots]

Just say it. I drank half a bottle of brandy only to get rejected by someone I thought liked me. But at least I know. And at least now, I can focus my interest on the other guy that is on the horizon.

[Sidders]

is it easy enough to speak to her on a one to one basis when you see her out or wherever? Or is she always surrounded by her mates.

Her mates are with her most of the time which doesn't help. I noticed last night, I don't think she's spoken to me since the text message incident. Maybe she's avoiding me?

[MK Chris]

Maybe she wants you to say something. She's probably embarassed by the fact that someone hinted that she likes you and you didn't say anything to indicate that you return those feelings.

[Sidders]

You could be right.

[kendra k]

you might have waited too long, and now she's moved on.

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

well arent you little miss jolly?

[kendra k]

poo on you.

i need a nap but i'm pretty much stuck at work for another 6 hours.

[Gaspode_The_Wonder_Dog]

some people would enjoy that offer. not me.